Do we throw them out?
Or do we realize some rules are made to be broken?
Hooray! At last, a common sense post about what to do about hard and fast rules that make no sense in this day and time.
6 Old Grammar Rules That Are Finally Going Out of Style by KELLY GURNETT

Here is my take on her 6 rules:
- Ending sentences with a preposition.
- Guilty, but I didn’t know this rule was attributed to Winston Churchill
- Starting sentences with a conjunction.
- Oh yes, guilty. This gem was apparently courtesy of teachers in the 19th century.
- Sentence fragments.
- Now honestly, I write like I talk. And well…
- Split infinities.
- This one drives me nuts. But what a relief, Kelly gives us permission to use as needed and explains why.
- Who vs Whom
- I love her suggestions. Just avoid if unsure. But realize the word “whom” is for formal writing.
- Pronouns.
- What about “they?” Turns out it’s not one but what else is a writer to use?
Click the link above to read more about Kelly’s thoughts on these obsolete grammar rules.
Questions:
Do you agree, some rules are made to be broken?
Is there another grammar rule that drives you nuts?
Are you guilty of breaking these six?
Do you have any tips to help writers with grammar rules?
Please share, let’s become better writers together.
Also, if you can please stop by my other locations and say “hey!” I’ll leave a light on.
I join now please conversation with me for helping thanks
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I am part of the Grammar Police. However, I do agree that there are specific instances when rules can be broken. For example, if you’re writing a conversation between characters it makes sense to end sentences with prepositions because most people do in regular speech. If you gave all of your characters perfect grammar they would come across as freaks. (Is that a crack on myself?)
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LOL, I’ve a sister and a daughter that police my writing and catch a lot of my mistakes.
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I’m sure I’ve broken every rule in the book! Thanks for sharing.
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Well, you know I have. LOL
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I must confess to struggling from time to time regarding the use of “which” versus “that”.
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Oh yeah, I do too. 🙂
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I am learning to throw in the towel and wave the white flag over correcting most of these. Fragments still drive me batty, but I am now accepting “they”…but I sure don’t like it!
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That’s why a good editor is so important.
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I use split infinities all the time. It just can’t be helped. I try to avoid the prepositions at the end of a sentence but sometimes the sentence NEEDS it.
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Couldn’t agree more.
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Fiction and nonfiction really call for different rules, or at least differing emphasis. As another commenter said, dialogue has to sound the way real people talk. Expository writing is all about clarity. A big part of learning how to write is when to apply what rules. And when it’s OK to ignore rules altogether.
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Right you are, Audrey. Sort of like life, gotta know when to break a rule to survive. 🙂
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Reblogged this on Just Can't Help Writing and commented:
I’ve weighed in on this very issue! Many so-called rules come from dubious historical sources and, in use in context, are judgment calls. English isn’t Latin. It can’t be like Latin. Make “good” use of the “rules.”
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Couldn’t agree more. No one wants a piece of fiction to read like a text book.
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Just because teachers are too freaking lazy to teach them and publishers and editors don’t seem to gie a sh*t is not a reason to throw them out. Rules are designed for clarity. It honestly makes me almost vomit when I read book after book and article after article beautifully written except for so f’ing many sentences beginning with a conjunction. It is completely inexcusable to begin a sentence with a conjunction. PERIOD!
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WOW! Didn’t mean to get under your skin. But, (conjunction) there are different types of conjunctions. It’s Fine to Start a Sentence with a Coordinating Conjunction And, but, and or are the three most common members of a group of words known as coordinating conjunctions. http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/education/grammar/can-i-start-a-sentence-with-a-conjunction
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Occasionally I’ll begin a sentence with a conjunction for rhetorical purposes, but mostly I follow the rules of grammar. I believe you have to know the rules before you can break them.
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True, Robert. Knowing the rules help us decide when to break. 🙂
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Reblogged this on When Angels Fly.
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The “rule” that annoys me the most lately (ask me again tomorrow, and I may have a different answer) is “Do not use contractions.” Although this is a good guideline for formal/academic writing (I proofread all my twin’s scientific papers, so I’m quite familiar with those rules of writing), it’s NOT a good guideline for, say, fiction, especially characters’ dialogue.
I thought the quote from Churchill was him making fun of the “Never end with a preposition” rule because it can result in some really awkward sentences: “There are some things up with which I will not put.” If all he’d wanted to do was avoid ending with either “up” or “with,” he could have said, “I will not put up with some things,” right?
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Good point. Fiction would be terribly stuffy without contractions. Another one for me is “never” used words ending in ly. Sometimes I need an ly word. LOL
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It’s often worse than that; sometimes they tell writers “Never use adverbs, even ones that don’t end in -ly.” The thing is, never IS an adverb (as is ANY word used to modify a verb, even if it’s grammatically incorrect, such as “walked fast” instead of “walked quickly,” in an attempt to avoid those “forbidden” adverbs), so they’re already breaking their own “rule.” 🙂
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Great points! Thanks Thomas. Sometimes an adverb is needed to tell a story.
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Reblogged this on Chris The Story Reading Ape's Blog.
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Hi, Jean,
This is always a fun issue to discuss (fight?) over. I’ve posted some pretty specific arguments in favor of treating these exact rules (and others, like the choice between “that” and “which” or the use of “hopefully,” as judgment calls depending on the context in which they’re used. And I always get a little mischievous when someone throws Strunk & White at me: “Strunk & White say you can’t do that!” Of course you can. And often, whether you should or not is a judgment call. Here’s a link to a wonderful article on exactly this topic, published many years ago in a journal for writing teachers: The Phenomenology of Error by Joseph Williams: http://www.stthomasu.ca/~hunt/williams.htm. And here’s one of my takes: https://justcanthelpwriting.wordpress.com/2015/07/17/how-much-grammar-do-you-need-part-ii/
What fun!
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I couldn’t agree more. I get dinged a lot for the “rules.” But sometimes there is a need to break a few eggs if you want an omelet.
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